I learned a lot about my best friend Kelly today from all her other best friends who came from far and near for her celebration of life. Also from her family. And while I lament the short time we had together, there is one thing I know for absolute certain, which leaves me with no regrets. She knew I loved her. I told her all the time.

Make sure the people you love know it. Tell them. Even if it embarrasses them. Or you. Or whoever is in the park watching you give her a big ole smooch on the day she graduates (with distinction and honours). Who cares about a little embarrassment? It’s way better than regrets, now, isn’t it?

I love you, Kelly and miss you like crazy.

Kelly Cathleen Elizabeth Berthelot

1989-2011