I know I’ve been blogging a lot lately, and I don’t intend to keep up quite this pace, but this relates to writing and I wanted to share. My husband has been gently nudging me to leave the house more. It’s true, left to my own devices, I can go an awful long time without leaving. Last winter I didn’t go anywhere for two whole weeks. So last night I went to an election night party and I have to say that there probably is something in this leaving the house. Being around people reminds you (or teaches you) how they act and talk and these are important things to writers! Last night I was reminded of the differences between men and women party hosts. Let’s say you take a pasta salad to a party and you notice the hostess loves it. She’s had thirds, but there are still leftovers.

Here is a conversation you might have with a hostess when it’s time to leave:

Me – Oh, if you have a container I’ll just leave the rest of this pasta salad for you and take my bowl.

Hostess – You don’t have to do that. Take it. You’ll eat it.

Me – No really. I made extra and have a bowl of it in my fridge. You have it if you want it.

Hostess – Well, if you’re sure. Thanks!

She gets the container and takes the food.

Now, here’s the same situation with a male host:

Me – Oh, if you have a container I’ll just leave the rest of this pasta salad for you and take my bowl.

Him – Great! Thanks! (hands you container)

These are important things to observe (when you leave the house) because they make your writing more believable!